Dear Married Lady

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  1. Dear Married Lady, holy wives don’t just speak in tongues. They cook super meals, raise godly kids, and wear hot dresses (for their husbands). They have mind blowing sex with their husbands and still make heaven.
  1. Dear Married Lady, forget about changing your husband. Just be an upgraded version of you with more value and sweetness.
    1. Dear Married Lady, look at your husband through the lens of righteousness in Christ Jesus. He may be guilty of some wrongdoings but do not focus on those. Focus rather on the Christ in him. In other words, focus on his positives and not the negatives. Do this in wisdom!

  1. Dear Married Lady, familiarity has the tendency to make us take things for granted – our family and especially our husbands. Replace nagging with appreciation!
  1. Dear Married Lady, be the number one fan of your husband. Support him in all his interests. Ensure you decree greatness in all his endeavors. Don’t allow other ladies to do this for you. Be the first and be the best at this.

  1. Dear Married Lady, as Christ is love so are you. As Christ is forgiveness so are you. Do not punish your husband with tight jeans. Let him give you some massage or buy you something nice. You are not a fool! You care about your marriage.
  1. Dear Married Lady, decide that loving. Intentional and intentionally love your husband. Find out what love means to your him and give that to him. Don’t assume a common definition of love. What is love to you may not be to him. Portray the love he yearns for.
  1. Dear Married Lady, in this age where technology is supposed to break homes, use this same technology to build your home. Text your husband some hot messages as a shadow of the things awaiting him at home.
  1. Dear Married Lady, don’t focus on the competition outside the home and get bitter. You are not the only lady who loves your husband. Focus on your husband and give him the best of treatment always, especially when you think he doesn’t deserve it.
  1. Dear Married Lady, don’t become a prison for your husband. When it gets to the point where he needs space, grant it to him. There is freedom in true love. Over-protective love is misguided and destructive. Use those periods to better yourself. Get the sexiest look. Be your sweetest self when he returns home. You are always the winner.
  1. Dear Married Lady, be the curious and creative type. Don’t be shy to initiate lovemaking. Wearing sexy lingeries does not mean you are spoilt or demon-possessed. Join in the creativity, make your marriage fun. Afterwards speak in tongues together!
  1. Dear Married Lady, challenges may come in your marriage. Instead of letting them leave you tattered, decide to make the best of them, look your best, and love your best in the face of challenges. Guess what? The Christ in you is the best! You can’t be any less.
  1. Dear Married Lady, the fact that you have four kids does not mean you should let your body look 20 years older. You can start small. Discipline yourself. Check your weight. Don’t eat junk food. Take brisk walks! Exercise your body and be a Lady indeed.
  1. Dear Married Lady, Christianity is not the end of decent hot fashion. Christianity is not tagged with old ladyship. Long gowns do not make you holy. Dress well. Be neat. Look presentable. Let the young ladies check you up for the latest decent trend!
  1. Dear Married Lady, even when you’re tired, be sensitive to your man’s needs in bed. You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. Don’t lazy yourself in front of him. It’s a bad signal. Be in readiness to satisfy him at all times. Don’t give him reasons to look elsewhere.

  1. A woman of GRACE who can find? She has a heart of gold. She gives her best even in the worst of situations. She loves her spouse even at the most undeserving times.
  1. She is love. She is forgiveness. She is support. She is prayer. She is wisdom. She is the dream lover. She mothers the world. She is as Jesus is, so precious. She is loyal and deeply soaked in the Word. She rightly fits on all the decent fronts.

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