15 insanely nice things to say

15 INSANELY NICE THINGS TO SAY

Megan Gladwell

Lifting another’s spirits with a genuine compliment makes you feel pretty great, too. You never know how your kind words will affect those around you.

Mark Twain said, “I can live for two months on a good compliment.”

A knee-melting compliment, delivered directly and sincerely, can be life altering. We never know how profoundly our kind words affect the recipient – from a store clerk to our own kids.

In the spirit of Mark Twain, here are 15 really nice gems to throw someone’s way.

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5 tips on offering advice to adult children

5 TIPS ON OFFERING ADVICE TO ADULT CHILDREN

Georgia Lee

As you and your children age, your role as a parent changes. Here are some tips and tricks on continuing to parent your grown children.

Parenting adult children can seem like an oxymoron, times two! “Adult children” occupy an amorphous space in your mind, and perhaps in the dictionary. How can you be both a child and an adult? Parenting an adult just sounds mutually exclusive. After all, adults don’t need parenting, right? Once you reach the age of 18, of course you know everything there is to know about life, love and happiness. Perhaps according to the law once the age of emancipation is reached, adults are responsible for their own lives, and counted and entrusted as individuals. But in families, this rarely happens through any passage of time.

As a parent or grandparent, you may feel compelled to share your knowledge, wisdom and life experiences with your adult children, but take care in sharing. The message may be enlightening, amazing or even inspiring. But frustrated recipients often shoot the messenger!

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6 Ways to Be the Hero When Your Wife is Emotional

6 WAYS TO BE THE HERO WHEN YOUR WIFE IS EMOTIONAL

Brian Lindner

Jeff pulls his Toyota Avalon into the garage after a stressful day of sales meetings. Working as a sales manager is not his ideal job but it pays so well enough that his wife chose to stop working and care for the kids full time. Jeff grabs his cell phone and keys and walks to the front yard to check the mailbox. On his way inside he shuffles through the mail. Glancing up from looking at the mail in his hands he sees it and freezes.

His wife sits at the kitchen turned away from him slightly, but he can tell she’s been crying.

He tries not to panic. He wants to run but he can’t just leave her like that, she’s obviously hurt. With a burst of courage he approaches.

What do you do when your wife cries? Do you try to rescue her from her emotions? Tell her how to change her attitude? Fix what is bothering her? Panic and do nothing? Tell her a joke and change the subject? Try to cheer her up? Compare her circumstances to something worse? Do you ignore her to give her space?

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5 Things Unhappy People Refuse to Admit to Themselves

5 THINGS UNHAPPY PEOPLE REFUSE TO ADMIT TO THEMSELVES

Angel Chernoff

Marc and I recently went roller skating for the first time in forever.  Everyone else skating was pretty young, except one man in his late 50’s.  He kept falling down, smiling and laughing.  And all the kids skating kept smiling and laughing along with him.  Finally, I asked him why he decided to skate today and he said, “I was at work earlier and realized I had never been roller skating.  And although life hasn’t been easy lately, here I am cracking myself up.  It’s totally been worth it!”

Talk about a great reminder, for all of us!  Even when life is tough we can choose to smile.

But so many of us don’t…

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12 things that make your man LOSE interest in you (immediately)

12 THINGS THAT MAKE YOUR MAN LOSE INTEREST IN YOU (IMMEDIATELY)

Mariel Reimann

Avoid these at all cost (especially 8 and 9).

There are several things you unknowingly do that push your man away. Most of these behaviors are not major, but rather opposite. They may be the reason the man you love seems to lose interest in you without any explanation.

Avoid these 12 things and your love will change:

  1. Being desperate

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Looks May Be Misleading

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LOOKS MAY BE MISLEADING
Clara Wersterfer

Most teens can’t wait to learn to drive. Not so with me. Driving made me nervous. I didn’t get a license until I turned 24 years old. As a result, when I first married, we only had one car and car-pooled to work. My husband’s hours were different from mine by one hour. I worked earlier. So he dropped me off and went to the diner to drink coffee until work time.

Then, in the afternoons, I leisurely walked the three miles to his work place where I waited in his car, reading a book.

One day while waiting for him, I noticed the most beautiful Cadillac pull in the lot. It was powder blue and sleek looking – the kind of car you dream about. I was busily admiring the car when I noticed the driver. Honestly, she was probably the prettiest woman I had ever seen off the movie screen.

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See what children from rich homes and in private schools do behind their parents

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SEE WHAT CHILDREN FROM RICH HOMES AND IN PRIVATE SCHOOLS DO BEHIND THEIR PARENTS

… It was a pool party.

And they were there.

Men who have ‘arrived’.

Money, power and fame.

Men in their prime who tell time to hold still since they have refused to age and it grudgingly obeys in detente and in temporaneous.

They dress young, they dance young, they act young.

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10 things men wish women would stop doing (and embrace their natural beauty instead)

10 THINGS MEN WISH WOMEN WOULD STOP DOING (AND EMBRACE THEIR NATURAL BEAUTY INSTEAD)

Stael Ferreira Pedrosa
Avoid these 10 things that men find unattractive.

The answer is yes. Most men can tell when a woman is trying too hard. Here are 10 things they dislike the most:
1. Extreme hairstyles
A woman with hair full of volumizing product and variously placed bobby pins walks into the room. You think she will attract the attention of all the men at the party. Will it attract attention? Yes, but not for the reasons you want. Most men prefer long, loose, soft and silky hair, not sticky hairspray and hard gels.

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The Strange Way Childhood Shapes Your Adult Relationships

THE STRANGE WAY CHILDHOOD SHAPES YOUR ADULT RELATIONSHIPS

Kyle Benson

Throughout the 1950’s and 1960’s, Harlow unethically experimented with monkeys in order to understand the effects of deprivation on human infants.

He raised infant monkeys in isolation.

Isolation

Despite being fed, some died. Others were frightened and behaved in an abnormal manner.  When he placed these isolated monkeys in a social environment, the monkeys were socially inept.

This makes sense. If you’re 25 and have never interacted with a single human being, then you have no basis of language or social norms, and you will fear others trying to interact with you.

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Dear Married Lady

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DEAR MARRIED LADY

  1. Dear Married Lady, holy wives don’t just speak in tongues. They cook super meals, raise godly kids, and wear hot dresses (for their husbands). They have mind blowing sex with their husbands and still make heaven.
  1. Dear Married Lady, forget about changing your husband. Just be an upgraded version of you with more value and sweetness.
  1. Dear Married Lady, look at your husband through the lens of righteousness in Christ Jesus. He may be guilty of some wrongdoings but do not focus on those. Focus rather on the Christ in him. In other words, focus on his positives and not the negatives. Do this in wisdom!

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