A NEW 2-MINUTE READ THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVE TODAY (AND SPARE SOME PAIN)
Doubt your doubts before you doubt your faith.
That’s the super-short version of our advice for those moments when nothing seems to be going as planned; when everything you want seems out of reach; when you feel utterly stuck.
Yes, just be right where you are, with an open mind.
Let go of what you think your life is supposed to look like and sincerely appreciate it for everything it is.
IN LOVE WITH TWO PEOPLE? – HOW TO MAKE UP YOUR MIND
Can you ever be in love with two people at the same time? Of course, you can. But can you carry it off without breaking hearts? Well, that’s tricky.
Have you ever found yourself falling for someone when you’re already in a committed relationship?
Have you ever been in love with two people at the same time?
If you have, you aren’t alone.
While it may infuriate your partner or seem morally unethical, falling in love with two people is as simple as falling in love with one person.
10 EARLY WARNING SIGNS OF MIDLIFE CRISIS IN WOMEN YOU CAN’T HIDE
If the signs of a midlife crisis in men are driving a convertible and having an affair, these are the signs of midlife crisis in women.
If a man, starting to go grey, buys a red sports car or starts sleeping with his twenty-something secretary, it can be a major alert that he is having a midlife crisis. But the signs of midlife crisis in women are more subtle.
What is so different between middle-aged men and women?
Often men are looking to make a change. And usually regarding their masculinity or financial success. Women usually get validation from their relationships. Whether as a wife, mother, or even a friend or employee, women see their worth in a different way then men.
HOW TO DEAL WITH JEALOUSY IN A RELATIONSHIP
Jealousy isn’t always a sign of weakness or insecurity. It could also be an expression of love. Understand how to deal with jealousy in a relationship and experience a happier relationship.
Jealousy in a relationship isn’t always easy to handle.
It can confuse anyone into believing that the relationship is threatened even if they’re in a perfect relationship.
Jealousy crops up in many ways, but in essence, it’s a sign of insecurity and the fear of losing the one you love.
And jealousy in a relationship is never ever a bad thing.
10 THINGS TOO MANY UNHAPPY PEOPLE WANT MORE THAN HAPPINESS
Once upon a time, a young girl awoke hungry and thirsty. She hadn’t consumed anything to eat or drink for as long as she could remember… and she was lost in a vast desert without food, water, shelter, or any kind of parental care. But she wasn’t scared. She was ready!
For throughout her short life, the universe had been crystal clear with her: while other children were granted easier lives in happy homes with loving parents, Christmas trees and birthday parties, her destiny was very different: it was to know suffering… so she could find ways to alleviate suffering in others.
The young girl’s heart pounded hard as she watched the sun rise over the distant horizon. And she wondered how much more her deprived little body and mind could take. She was struggling in so many ways, yet she let the universe know, as she often did, that if today was the day… it was OK. But she wouldn’t give up without a fight!
HOW TO STOP LYING TO YOURSELF AND TO YOUR PARTNER
Ever feel like you lie a lot for no apparent reason? If you’re a serial liar, learn how to stop lying to the people that matter by using these tips. By Bella Rayne
It’s alright to lie.
Sometimes, a white lie can be better than the harsh truth.
Almost all the time, lying is an easier and safer alternative.
As long as you know how to manipulate the truth, lying can feel so good. And easy!
MIDLIFE CRISIS FOR WOMEN: 13 WAYS THAT SET THEM APART FROM A MAN
No one said life was easy. Sometimes, as women, there are moments where we think, “Is this really my life?” But maybe you’re just in a midlife crisis for women.
If you think you’re experiencing a midlife crisis for women, don’t worry. In fact, if you use this crisis to your advantage, you can motivate yourself to accomplish the things that you wanted to but didn’t have the chance to or were too scared to.
Maybe you wanted to become an actress but were scared to audition or you didn’t get into a program that you wanted. And now, you feel incomplete, which is completely normal. Sure, you may be a bit older and think that it’s too late, that your life is over. Well, first of all, it’s never too late, and your life doesn’t end until you allow it to.
QUESTIONS YOU SHOULD NEVER ASK YOUR MAN!
Most people in the world think that asking questions is the easiest way to open your man up, and get him to start talking. But in reality, it’s these very questions that men hate answering the most, says Vinod Srinivas.
Now where do I begin?!! This is one of the most important and crucial parts of a relationship. Maybe not to women, but to men, definitely! A while ago, I had attended a meeting of several counselors and relationship experts, and as the conversation rolled on, one of the women counselors told me about a chart of questions that she had prepared for women.
She beamed as she told me that the chart was called “The fun questions to ask your man”. As I heard what she told me, I was horrified. I thought she was mad! She briefly told me about each question and told me how this little piece of information can help change a relationship and help the women understand their men better. But I thought otherwise, to me these questions sounded like a nail in the coffin.
5 WAYS TO TELL IF YOU’RE IN THE NEGATIVE PERSPECTIVE – AND HOW TO GET OUT!
Over the last couple of weeks we’ve been talking about the negative perspective. This is something that I see a lot in my clients and in my office on a regular basis. It’s quite common and normal to be in the negative perspective but it doesn’t have to be that way.
Today I want to share ways to tell if you’re in the negative perspective and, more importantly, what you can do about it!
What is The Negative Perspective?
The Negative perspective as we learned earlier is a distortion of your view of your partner. It’s not just always seeing the worst in your significant other.
7 WAYS TO TRANSFORM CLINGY INSECURITY INTO A SUPERPOWER FOR HEALTHIER RELATIONSHIPS
All superheroes have weaknesses that can cripple them. Like Superman’s kryptonite, my clingy insecurity in my relationship five years ago brought me to my knees.
When I met Crystal, I fell head over heels instantly. She gave me just enough to show she was interested, but not enough to show that she was as invested as I was in our relationship. The mixed signals drove me crazy.
As weeks turned into months, I found myself addicted to thoughts of her and ways to keep her interested in me. At work, I struggled to focus and would freak out if she didn’t respond to my text messages within a few hours. I would look up what to text her and buy “How to be Funny and Keep Her Interested” types of books and devour them because I was starving for love