The Journey is So Short!

THE JOURNEY IS SO SHORT!

A young lady sat in public transport. An elderly grumpy lady came and sat by her as she bumped into her with her numerous bags. The other neighbor got upset, asking the young lady why she did not protest and insist on her rights. She responded with a smile: “It is not necessary to be rude or argue over something so insignificant! I’ll alight at the next stop; our journey together is so short,” replied the young lady.

Here’s a response which deserves to be written in GOLDEN letters in our daily behaviours and everywhere:

“It is not necessary to argue over something so insignificant. Our journey together is so short!”

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When Couples Fight: “Help! I Said Something I Can’t Take Back!”

WHEN COUPLES FIGHT: “HELP! I SAID SOMETHING I CAN’T TAKE BACK!”

Dr. Rich Nicastro

We’ve all been in situations where we’ve had to bite our tongues, times when. we’ve felt justified in being angry—so much so that we surprise ourselves with the verbiage that pops into our heads. We want the other person to get an earful of our displeasure. Even through the haze of anger, though, we understand that we should resist giving voice to everything we’re thinking. Because, after all, common wisdom dictates that there are some things that, once they’re said, you can’t merely “unsay.”

But what happens when the emotional turmoil gets the better of you and you cross the line with your spouse/partner? What happens when you say something you can’t take back?

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Free at last: I forgive you

FREE AT LAST: I FORGIVE YOU
Dennise Sleeper

Forgiveness can be difficult, but is necessary for the health and personal growth of the offended and the continuation of relationships within families and among friends.

Forgiveness is letting go of the feelings associated with an offense or wrongdoing against us. This doesn’t absolve fault, but does free the forgiver from the chains of anger, hatred and vengeance. We all offend and are offended, so why is it sometimes difficult to forgive?

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3 steps to forgiving each other

3 STEPS TO FORGIVING EACH OTHER

Cale Gray

When a person is hurt by a romantic partner, she might begin putting up walls of resentment, bitterness or distrust. These walls, if not taken down, can obscure the love between partners.

The price of a healthy romantic relationship is a high level of vulnerability.

When a person is hurt by a romantic partner, she might begin putting up walls of resentment, bitterness or distrust.

These walls, if not taken down, can obscure the love between partners. Effective forgiveness is a principle and process by which these protective walls fall down.

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Broken after she found out about the other woman, she thought of the perfect revenge

She took revenge from husband by having sex with neighbour.

BROKEN AFTER SHE FOUND OUT ABOUT THE OTHER WOMAN, SHE THOUGHT OF THE PERFECT REVENGE

Urmimala Das

She asked, “Should I sleep with the man who decided to marry another after we had three children?”

We called her Nani. She was a beautiful Khasi woman. I met her in Shillong, Meghalaya, while working there in a high school. It was my first opportunity to see a matrilineal society. I was observing the relationship of couples from a different angle. Being a woman from a patriarchal society, it was not easy for me to understand their thoughts, emotions and behaviour. But I was trying.

I met Nani regularly in a local market, where she sold dry fish and vegetables. Her bright smile and hard working nature made me her admirer. We started talking and soon became friends.In spite of coming from different backgrounds, sharing our personal thoughts, plans,and sorrows was no more an odd thing between us. She was totally independent. Many times I experienced her kindness – when a poor boy needed his school fees or an unmarried mother needed a shelter with her baby. I was deeply touched and inspired by her. And one day,suddenly, she opened the painful pages of her life tome.

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We were engaged to be married but she cheated on me

She Cheated On Me | My Fiancee Cheated On Me Before Marriage | Bonobology.Com

“WE WERE ENGAGED TO BE MARRIED BUT SHE CHEATED ON ME”

Mariya Salim

The story of a man who was cheated and broke off his engagement and is rebuilding his life

We never imagine that something terrible can happen to us until it actually does. Was I a fool to think everlasting love exists? Was honesty too much to ask for? Should she not have just told me and moved on with dignity?

Engaged to be married, I caught my fiancé cheating and decided to call the wedding off.

It’s not easy when you share the workplace with your ex and I feel like all eyes are on me and all minds trying to sort out the Gordian knot that my personal life has suddenly become. It’s been two months and I haven’t seen her in the office. It bothers me to think what story she may have spun to explain what happened between us, especially when I get cold stares from her friends.

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When my wife cheated on me, I decided to show more love

He’d discovered that she’d been unfaithful

WHEN MY WIFE CHEATED ON ME, I DECIDED TO SHOW MORE LOVE

Saheli Mitra

He loved her honesty until he discovered the biggest lie. How did he bring her back to him?

(Names changed to protect identities)

I first met Mili when we were in the second year of college. She played Desdemona, the breathtaking beauty killed by her suspicious husband Othello. She gave perfect shape to the character on stage during our college fest. Little did I know that almost two decades later she would drive me to the pinnacles of suspicion.

Mili was pursuing a degree in literature at Jadavpur University, while I was doing engineering. It was not just her beauty that attracted me but her infectious personality. Everything about her seemed to be honest. The more we got to know each other through common friends, the more I realised she was someone who spoke straight from her heart and never tried to hide her feelings or emotions. I told myself, if a woman were this frank, she would always make the best and honest life partner. I was open to her thoughts and respected her views and honesty.

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Have I forgiven my husband for his affair?

Life Was Beautiful After Marriage, But Then He Had An Affair | Bonobology.Com

HAVE I FORGIVEN MY HUSBAND FOR HIS AFFAIR?

Akshata Ram

Theirs was a love marriage and everything seemed ideal until one day she discovered the truth

(Names changed to protect identities)

Having moved from Mumbai to South India for work, I was in a pensive mood most days, until, like a fairy tale, Harish walked into my life.

He was senior to me. Not handsome at first glance but a certain charisma made people steal a second glance. I was a shy and docile girl and didn’t take the first step forward, but knew he was attracted to me when he kept finding excuses to come and talk to me over coffee breaks and lunches. Gradually we started going out for movies and to malls over weekends.

My 24th birthday will forever be etched in my memory. Never had anyone made me feel so special. He threw a party inviting all our close friends, took out a diamond ring and knelt down and proposed marriage. I couldn’t be happier. We got married and started living with his parents in Chennai.

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Was your spouse unfaithful to you?

WAS YOUR SPOUSE UNFAITHFUL TO YOU? 5 THINGS YOU MUST DO TO HEAL FROM THE INFIDELITY

Georgia Lee

Trust me, it’s going to get better.

Uncovering an infidelity is heartbreaking and recovering can be even harder. At first you may be shocked and confused. Then you could become enraged and volatile. Disintegrating into a deep depression, becoming paralyzed and numb, or ignoring the incident all together are also typical responses. But healthier methods for moving forward together or apart are available.

Here are five ways to get yourself back on track and heal after your partner has been unfaithful.

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You killed a fowl

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YOU KILLED A FOWL

As a kid I liked playing with stones, till one day I threw one and it hit and killed my mother’s fowl instantly. I thought I was alone but, surprisingly, my sister was right behind me watching. Then she said, “Give me N100 and I won’t tell Mum.”

I said, “I don’t have the money but please don’t tell her, she will beat me.”

The following day Mum told my sister to wash the plates and sweep the compound. To my surprise she answered, “Mum, TOM said he will do it.” She then came to me and said, “TOM, you wash the plates and sweep the compound or else… Don’t forget you killed a fowl.”

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