THE 25 SWEETEST ROMANTIC GESTURES FOR EVERYDAY LIFE
Sometimes, all you need are sweet romantic gestures every now and then to let your sweetheart know there’s still a lot of love floating in the air.
A great relationship doesn’t need expensive shows of affection all the time.
What matters more are sweet romantic gestures that can make your lover go awww…
Sometimes, a sweet gesture can make your partner’s day, even if it’s done in the smallest way.
It doesn’t matter if you’re the husband, the wife or even a boyfriend or girlfriend to use these tips.
What matters is that you care enough to create little ways to remind your lover that you’re still madly in love with them.
CHEATING IN A RELATIONSHIP
Can you really define cheating in a relationship? As complex as the feeling of love may be, affairs and cheating in a relationship are just as complicated, says Roberto Rossi. But who defines cheating, and what constitutes cheating in a relationship?
Cheating in a relationship is funny business. Painful, most definitely, but it’s extremely hilarious to watch from a third person’s view.
Have you seen how relationships change with time?
And have you noticed how we twist our own promises to our lovers to suit our needs as time passes by?
IT’S OKAY TO GO TO BED ANGRY
David and Constantino Khalaf
As much as we both dislike conflict, we seem to have an uncanny ability to get into fights at the most inconvenient times. Take, for example, the fight about money we started minutes before a group of friends came over to our house. Or the fight about being late we had in the car on the way to church, which also turned into an argument about money. And of course there are all the times we’ve argued late at night when all we really wanted to do was to go to bed. So we did.
Over the years, we’ve learned to ignore the advice we’ve heard at almost every wedding we’ve been to, including our own: We go to bed angry.
The Gottman Institute has disproved the myth that you shouldn’t let the sun set on your anger. At the Love Lab, couples were interrupted in the middle of an argument and asked to read magazines for 30 minutes. When they resumed the conversation, they had physiologically calmed down, which allowed them to communicate rationally and respectfully. Rather than seeing it as an inconvenience, taking a break when we feel ourselves getting overwhelmed during a fight has been helpful, even if that means sleeping on it.
HOW TO REPAIR THE LITTLE THINGS SO THEY DON’T BECOME BIG THINGS
All couples argue. Happy couples argue well. They have strategies for dealing with their inevitable disagreements, and they process their feelings so they don’t bottle up.
We know from Dr. Gottman’s research that both partners in a relationship are emotionally available only 9% of the time. This leaves 91% of our relationship ripe for miscommunication.
The difference between happy couples and unhappy couples is not that happy couples don’t make mistakes. We all hurt our partner’s feelings. The difference is that happy couples repair, and they do so early and often.
PATIENCE, KINDNESS AND CONSIDERATION
A 40-year-old man visited his old father who could no longer see very well. As both of them sat in front of his house chatting, a dove flew in and perched on the window.
The old man asked his son, “Is that a dove that perched on the window?”
The son replied, “Yes, dad.”
After a short while, he asked the son the same question a second time and got the same answer.
THE LION INSIDE A MAN DOES NOT EAT WOMEN
At one time a newly married young man was shouting at his 20-year-old wife. His father called him inside and said to him, “We only shout at people our threats can give fear but not the same to a woman especially the one you call your wife. The way you are shouting, you are giving away your power and she is the one you are giving it to. Your threats make her stronger.”
Most men believe that a woman is subdued when she is being threatened, but that’s a lie. Nothing is further from the truth!
Let us not be blind and still feel we have our eyes wide open. Why is it that the moment a man starts having sex, even with a 15-year-old little girl, his partner stops fearing him? If she was used to running away to hide when she saw him before then, that would stop. I will tell you something about women we have never believed.
25 TRUTHFUL REASONS WHY WOMEN CHEAT SO EASILY!
So why do women cheat in a relationship? Are women easy to trick or are they just confused? Read these 25 truthful reasons no one ever told you about!
Ever wondered why women cheat so easily?
For as long as we could remember, we’ve always thought that men were the bigger cheaters.
But now we know that it’s just a lie.
Why women cheat
Ever had your heart ripped apart by a woman who decided that it was quitting time and bulldozed her way out of your life?
DISTRACTED WHILE PARENTING? HERE’S HOW TO BE MORE ATTENTIVE
Parenting is often described as one of the best and most stressful jobs that a person can take on. Becoming a parent is an incredible responsibility that comes with a new set of rules, and the need to constantly be “on.” So what happens when parents go from being “on” top of things to being distracted and “on” their phone maybe a little too often?
The term for this phenomenon is distracted parenting. You may not have heard this term before, but you’ve likely seen it in action. Here are some examples of distracted parenting:
- An entire family on their phones at a restaurant, not even making eye contact.
- At a playground, a child is misbehaving and would likely be corrected if their parent was not texting.
- At an event and one kid is running out of the door with no adult present and you think, “Where is the adult?”
HOW TO GIVE SPACE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND NOT DRIFT APART
Love is a strange emotion. It can bring us close and yet, at times it can push us further away. Balancing togetherness and space perfectly is not easy, but it’s worth the effort. Find out how to give space in a relationship and live happier.
Relationships can be confusing.
Sometimes it needs a lot of togetherness. And at some other times, relationships need space to grow.
Knowing how to give space in a relationship, and yet stay together is an art that every couple needs to learn.
MARRIAGE AND THE STORY OF ALICE IN WONDERLAND
As the story goes, Alice sees a very unusual rabbit go down a hole, and she jumps in with two feet. She has no idea what this journey is going to be and Wonderland isn’t really all that great of a place.
There are scary things, challenging things, and things that are also interesting and fascinating. It’s an adventure, and Alice doesn’t know what’s in store for her, but she jumps in anyway.
Alice doesn’t hesitate or think maybe a better rabbit will come along tomorrow.
She doesn’t look back and doesn’t question the adventure she’s chosen.
That’s commitment, and that exactly is the kind of spirit every couple should nurture in their marriage on a daily basis. Marriage will then be a blissful experience despite all the hiccups.